Saturday, July 16, 2016

How to Take Charge of Your Life by Richard Bandler

One of the better books I have read over the last 10 years. One of the factors is that it is an easy read. 125 pages, messages clear and to the point, written in a story like manner with a fairytale ending.

Below are the main points i wrote.
  1. Personal freedom is the ability to feel what you want so that the chains of fear, sadness and hate are broken.
  2. We all have a past. The difference is some take our past and build a better future and some take their past and limited their future.
  3. Make unpleasant images black and white and make them small. You will feel better.
  4. Make images of what you feel good about as colourful as possible and big.
  5. The secret is to take the images in your mind that make you feel bad and make them small and black and white, move them farther away from you and get rid of them. And take the things that make you feel good and make them big, bright and vivid.
  6. Tragedy exists only in the mind as a terrible memory. A memory is just a representation of an experience. When you change the way you represent an experience, you change how you feel about the experience.
  7. Brilliance Square. Vision yourself as confident, together with the face expression, clothing wearing , body posture, way you breathe, light in eyes, grace and ease in all movement. Step onto the square which is of the colour of your favourite. Do this visioning 5 times. Builds confidence.
  8. Use cartoon/ridiculous tones to say negative words……to lessen the significance.
  9. If we build cheerful, happy and successful habits, we have happy, successful lives. If we are going to build grumpy, disappointed, depressing habits, we just get good at having bad feelings. Happiness is an activity; it’s a skill to master.
  10. Dalai Lama said that sometimes bad things happen. The key is that you just don’t dwell on them. If you throw a pebble into a pond, it makes ripples for a while, but eventually it smoothes out. When people dwell on things too much, they blow them out of proportion.
  11. The best thing about the past is that It’s over. The best thing about the present is that it’s a gift, and the best thing about the future is that its full of wonderful opportunities to feel good.
  12. The one thing in life that you can control is the inside of your head. If someone went into your house and painted horrible picture ion your walls, you wouldn’t leave them. Then why leave bad ideas inside your head? Unwanted negative images or horrible voices…there’s no point.
  13. If you take charge of your beliefs, you take charge of your life. How many ideas have I believed in that have prevented me from doing better in my life but might not be true? How many times have I given up on things just because I believed I wasn’t good enough to achieve them? How many things have I missed out on because I was convinced that I wouldn’t have them?
  14. If a person believes that they are successful, it will cause them to act in a successful way, which will make it more likely that they will become successful. Its what we call a self-fulfilling prophecy.
  15. What you believe determines how you act. How you act determines what results you get, and the results you get determine what your beliefs are. It’s a cycle; beliefs, actions, results, beliefs.
  16. Better to know what you want to have than what you want to lose. 
  17. 2 useful questions: What do you want? And how will you know you have achieved it?
  18. 2 basic ways to be motivated. One is the urge to move away from pain and the other is the compelling desire to move towards pleasure.
  19. Learn from your past. See your present as an opportunity for you to do some new things. Look forward to a future that you can create that’s full of possibilities.
  20. Questions to set goals:

  • What do I need to do more of to reach my goal?
  • What do I need to do less of to reach my goal?
  • What do I need to stop doing to reach my goal?
  • What do I need to begin to do to reach my goal?
  • How can I change?
  • Why do I want to change?
  • What will it be like when I have changed?
These 20 points which I have written are those which I can relate to and will try to focus on a few of them in the near term to get some positive results.

Sunday, April 5, 2015

Losing My Virginity by Richard Branson

This is the longest book I have read for the last 10 years. Its 624 pages and I have taken about 2 months to finish it. On the Kindle, I must say that it is good in the fact that the size and font type of the words are just good for reading. And that the fact that the kindle is lighter than the actual book and you do not need to hold onto the pages, it has been a good read. The not so good part is that for the 624 pages in the actual book, there are >1000 pages in the kindle to "flip". Overall, it has been a good gadget for reading. I will definitely continue reading my books on the kindle, though I wish there are cheaper ways of getting some books.

In this book, Richard Branson started by describing his life from his childhood. His mother trained him from young to be independent and resourceful. As a young man in the UK, he was daring and experimential. He started his 1st business in school with a student magazine. His profitable business was Virgin Music with hippier stores for customers to browse and chat. Then come Virgin Records where his signing of Mike Oldfield recorded the "Tubular Bells". From there onwards, Virgin Records has signed a number of higher flying music artists. During this period, Virgin group expanded into a network of Virgin businesses, such as Virgin Holidays, Virgin Cars etc.

Richard Branson is now known for his transport business. He sold his music businesses and focused mainly on his airline and rail businesses. He described his ups and downs, including battle with British Airways, and the American government. He has also been the adventurous type. He sailed a boat and flew over the Atlantic in a hot air balloon. The last parts of the book surrounds mainly around 2005-7 where Richard was steering more on space travel, going green and helping Africa in battling health issues.

There are many "never say die" attitude situations in this book. Good for motivation and maybe inspiring some to take some unusual paths to reach greater heights in career and life.

Friday, February 20, 2015

Kindle

I had thought of buying a kindle for quite a while but always forego that as my tablet should be able to read books right? I have always brought 2 books with me to my trips overseas. I try to read as much as I could during my trips. Usually, I will pick those books which are easier reads and shorter read(less than 200 pages) so that i can finish them during the trip and is light in my luggage.

Recently, i see the benefits of a kindle. I also saw another version, the Nook. Though I have not done any comparisons, i think they are similar.

I saw there was a discount website selling the paperwhite version and was interested. My wife saw me surfing the website and asked if i want one as my present.

Of course I said YES! and here i have a Kindle Paperwhite  :)

I have a list of books that I want to read. I immediately surfed the kindle website and purchased 2 books. The 1st one is Richard Branson's 1st biography, Losing my Virginity. I must say that with the Kindle, I am definitely reading more.

Ok. Will write my 1st Kindle book review....hopefully soon.

Sunday, December 28, 2014

The Leader, The Teacher & You by Lim Siong Guan

Firstly, I have to admit that I have not read this book. I have a few more books which I have promised myself to read. After that, I will surely read this 

The following points are what I gather from Mr Lim Siong Guan's speech, which I attended.So here goes.

1) Difference between teachers, managers and leaders. Teachers aims to bring out the potential of the children. Managers sees employees as tools to get things done. Leaders hope their employees supersede them. Can bring out their potential n contribute their upmost.

2) The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.

3) There is always an alternative in any situation or problem.

4) Position leadership. Mission, vision, sustainability, excellence, future, change, culture

5) Are the jobs that we are doing good enough for the future?

6) People want bosses who Guide, Empathize, Energize, Synergize and Embolden(staff wanting to do something and improve stuff). GEESE

7) Failure to learn from the past, failure to adapt to present, failure to anticipate the future.

8) Barriers to change. People barriers - knowledge, beliefs, confidence, power. Resource barrier - Did not catch the rest.

9) How to earn trust.
- care about others
-ask ' how can I help you do your job better?"
- don't take their credit
- GEESE leadership
- the leader, the teacher

10) Pace of change should b determined by the people who will b the future leaders.

Overall, Mr Lim has a down to earth aura and he speaks with simple, concise English. Hope to be able to hear him speak again.

Sunday, September 14, 2014

Good Strategy Bad Strategy by Richard Rumelt

In my current workscope, I thought I really need to improve my strategy thinking. So i started to search for books which teaches about coming up with good strategies. I was unable to find one which I was looking for until i saw this book in MPH or Times in Changi Airport when I was going to Phuket for a short trip. That has been about 9 months ago.

I must say that after going through about 50 pages, I was kind of disappointed as the author seemed to just want to tell the readers that most companies do not have strategies and just have goals or plans. Anyway, I read on as I can't find another strategy book. Below are just statements from the book or some thing i figured out from reading the book.

1) A good strategy has coherence, coordinating actions, policies and resources so as to accomplish an important end.

2) Strategy is at least as much about what an organization does not do as it is about what it does.

3) Use your strengths to exploit opposition weakness.

4) Once you develop the ability to detect bad strategy, you will dramatically improve your effectiveness at judging, influencing and create strategy.

5) A strategy is a way through a difficulty, an approach to overcome an obstacle, a response to a challenge. If the challenge is not defined, it is difficult or impossible to assess the quality of the strategy. And if you cannot assess a strategy's quality, you cannot reject a bad strategy or improve a good one.

6) Bad strategy is the active for avoidance of the hardwork of crafting a good strategy.

7) The transformational leader a) develops or has a vision b) inspires people to sacrifice (change( for the good of the organization, and c) empowers people to accomplish the vision

8) Strategy is the craft if figuring out which purposes are both worth pursuing and capable of being accomplished.

9) Good strategy is coherent action backed up by an argument, an effective mixture of thought and action with a basic underlying structure. Structure contains:
A) A diagnosis that defines or explains the nature of the challenge
B) A guiding policy for dialing with the challenge
C) A reference of coherent actions that are designed to carry out the guiding policy

10) To concentrate on an objective - to make it a priority - necessarily assumes that many other important things will be taken care of.

11) One of a leader's most powerful tools is the creation of a good proximate objective - one that is close enough at hand to be feasible.

12) A series of chain linked activities are all maintained at a high level of quality, each benefiting from the quality of the other and the whole being resistant to each imitation.

13) A good strategy coordinates policies across activities to focus the competitive punch.

14) A more tightly integrated design is harder to create, narrower in focus, more fragile in use, and less flexible in responding to changes.

15) At the core, strategy is about focus, and most complex organization don't focus their resources. Instead, they pursue multiple goals at once, not concentrating enough resources to achieve a breakthrough in any of them.

16) If a business can produce at a lower cost than its competitors, or if it can deliver more perceived value than its competitors, or a mix of the 2, then you have a competitive advantage.

17)  Increasing value requires a strategy for progress on one of the 4 different fronts:
A) Deepening advantages
B)Broadening the extent of advantage
C) Creating higher demand for advantaged product or service
D) Strengthening the isolated mechanisms that block easy replication and imitation by competitors.

18) Deepening advantage
- either increasing value to buyers, reduce cost or both
- improvement come from re-examining the details of how work is done, not just from cost control or incentives.

19) Broadening extent of advantage
- build on strength

20) Creating higher demand
- Higher demand will increase long term profits only if a business already possesses scarce resources that create a stable competitive advantage.

21) Strengthening Isolating Mechanism
- Work on stronger patents, brand name protection and copyrights
- be a moving target for imitators (keep improving)

I quickly went thru the rest of the book as there are too many stories and too few principles to be learned. Of the above 21 points, I hope any reader is able to get something out of it.

Friday, September 5, 2014

The Leader's Checklist by Michael Useem

I bought this book because of 2 reasons:1) it has only about 100 pages. 2) Its published by Wharton. I find books published by Wharton mostly more credible and easier reads.

There are a few good statements. One which stands out is "Leaders connect, collaborate and coordinate".

There are 15 mission-critical principles:

1) Articulate a Vision. Formulate a clear and persuasive vision and communicate it to all members of the enterprise.

2) Think and Act Strategically. Set forth a pragmatic strategy for achieving that vision both short and long term, and ensure that it is widely understood; consider all players and anticipate reactions and resistance before they are manifest.

3) Honor the Room. Frequently express your confidence in and support for those who work with and for you.

4) Take Charge. Embrace a bias for action, of taking responsibility even if it is not formally delegated, particularly if you are well positioned to make a difference.

5) Act Decisively. Make good and timely decisions and ensure that they are executed.

6) Communicate Persuasively. Communicate in ways that people will not forget; simplicity and clarity of expression help.

7) Motivate the Troops. Appreciate the distinctive intentions that people bring, and then build on those diverse motives to draw the best from each.

8) Embrace the Front Lines. Delegate authority except for strategic decisions, and stay close to the most directly engaged with the work of the enterprise.

9) Build Leadership in Others. Develop leadership throughout the organization.

10) Manage Relations. Build enduring personal ties with those who look to you, and work to harness the feelings and passions of the workplace.

11) Identify Personal Implications. Help everybody appreciate the impact that the vision and strategy are likely to have on their own work and future with the firm.

12) Convey your Character. Through gesture, commentary and accounts, ensure that others appreciate that you are a person of integrity.

13) Dampen over Optimism. Counter the hubris of success, focus the attention on latent threats and unresolved problems, and protect against the tendency for managers to engage in unwarranted risk.

14) Build a Diverse Top Team. Leaders need to take final responsibility, but leaders is also a team sport best played with an able roster of those collectively capable of resolving all the key challenges.

15) Place Common Interest First. In setting strategy, communicating vision, and reaching decisions, common purpose comes first, personal self-interest last.

After reading the book, good thing is it is even shorter than 100 pages, if you do not count the interviews. What I do not like are the only few references which consists of the Chilean mine collapse, NY 911 twin tower collapse, near collapse of AIG and surrender of Confederation Army. Find it too narrow. But overall, it has been a good read.


Thursday, August 8, 2013

WellBeing - Tom Rath and Jim Harter

If we can find short term incentives that are consistent with our long term objectives, it is much easier to make the right decisions in the moment. When we can see an immediate payoff, we are more likely to change our behaviour in the moment.

Career Wellbeing
A)     Most essential of the 5 elements. If you don’t have the opportunity to regularly do something you enjoy, the odds of your having high wellbeing in other areas diminish rapidly.
B)      Study showed that our wellbeing actually recovers more rapidly from the death of a spouse than it does from a sustained period of unemployment(>1 yr)
C)      For those who are engaged in work, happiness and interest throughout the day were significantly higher. Conversely, stress levels were substantially higher for those who are disengaged. The disengaged workers’ stress levels decreased and their happiness increased towards the end of the workday. People with low engagement and low career wellbeing are simply waiting for the workday to end.
D)     Engaged workers have similar happiness levels on working and nonworking days, with only slight increase in stress and a positive boost in interest levels when they are at work. However, disengaged workers experienced dramatic drops in happiness and interest – as well as major increases in stress – during workdays.
E)      If your career wellbeing is striving, you are able to have good weekends and good weekdays, and the time you are at work is as enjoyable as the time you spend away from work.
F)      For people with thriving career wellbeing, they love their work so much that it is closely aligned with – and can’t help but spill into – their personal lives.
G)     As employees’’ levels of engagement at work increases, their total cholesterol and triglyceride levels significantly decreased. Boosting your career wellbeing might be one of the most impt priorities to consider for maintaining good health over the years.
H)     The person we least enjoy being around is our boss. More incompetent is the boss, the higher risk of a heart attack.
I)        If your manager is primarily focusing on your strengths, the chance of your being actively disengaged is just 1% or 1 in 100.
J)       Most people strive to minimize the no of hours they need to work in a day and they want to retire as early as possible. But when they are going to retire, most of them want to keep working.
K)      One of the essentials to having fun at work is getting opportunity to use your strengths every day. When we build our strengths and daily success – instead of focusing on failures – we simply learn more.
L)       People with high career wellbeing wake up every morning with something to look forward to doing that day. Those with thriving career wellbeing have a deep purpose in life and a plan to attain their goals. In most cases, they have a leader or manager who makes them enthusiastic about the future and friends who share their passion. While you might thing people with high career wellbeing spend too much time working, they actually take more time to enjoy life, have better relationships, and don’t take things for granted. And they love what they do each day.
M)   3 recommendations: i) Use your strengths every day. Ii) Identify someone with a shared mission who encourages your growth. Spend more time with this person. Iii) Opt into more social time with people and teams you enjoy being around at work.

Social Wellbeing
A)     When you reflect on the most memorable events, experiences and moments in your life, you’ll notice that they have something in common: the presence of another person.
B)      We tend to synchronise our moods with the people around us, our emotions influence one another throughout the day.
C)       Odds of being happy increase by 15% if a direct connection in your social network is happy.
D)     People with a best friend who has a very healthy diet are more than five times as likely to have a very healthy diet as well.
E)      Relationships serve as a buffer during tough times, which in turn improves our cardiovascular functioning and decreases stress levels.
F)      It took almost twice as long for wounds to heal for couples who reported having hostility in their relationship.
G)     When we get at least 6 hours of daily social time, it increases our wellbeing and minimizes stress and worry.
H)     Those who have a best friend at work are 7 times as likely to be engaged in their jobs, are better at engaging customers, produce higher quality work, have high wellbeing, and are less likely to get injured on the job.
I)        People who have at least 3 or 4 very close friendships are healthier, have higher wellbeing, and are more engaged in their jobs.
J)       Key to great relationships is to focus on what each friend does contribute, instead of expecting one person to do it all.
K)      People with thriving social wellbeing have several close relationships that help them achieve, enjoy life, and be healthy. They are surrounded by people who encourage their development and growth. Those with high social wellbeing deliberately spend time – on average about 6 hours a day – investing in their social networks. They make time for gatherings and trips that strengthen these relationships even more. As a result, people with thriving social wellbeing have great relationships, which gives them positive energy on a daily basis.
L)       3 recommendations: i) Spend 6 hours a day socializing with friends, family and colleagues (this time includes work, home, phone, email and other communications), ii) Strengthen the mutual connections in your network, iii) Mix social time with physical activities. For example, take a long walk with a friend so you can motivate each other to be healthy.

Financial Wellbeing
A)     Money matters only up to the point at which people have enough money to afford their basic needs.
B)      Money can increase short term happiness by giving us more control over how we spend our time, whether that means a shorter commute, more time at home with family, or additional social time with friends.
C)      Study showed that spending on oneself does not boost wellbeing. However, spending money on others does – and it appears to be as important to people’s happiness as the total amount of money they make.
D)     We spend the most when we feel the worse.
E)      Buying experiences such as going out to dinner or taking a vacation increases out own wellbeing and the wellbeing of others. Material items lose their novelty, but we can relive memories indefinitely.
F)      It hurts a lot more to lose $50 that we already have than it feels good to win $50. Set default accounts to save money and grow financially.
G)     Financial security (the perception that you have more than enough money to do what you want to do) has 3 times the impact of your income alone on overall wellbeing. Furthermore, a lack of worry about money has more than double the impact of income on overall wellbeing.
H)     Managing your finances well allows you to do what you want to do when you want to do it.
I)        People with thriving Financial Wellbeing are satisfied with their overall standard of living. They manage their personal finances well to create financial security. This eliminates day-to-day stress caused by debt and helps build finance reserves. People with high Financial Wellbeing spend their money wisely. They buy experiences that provide them with lasting memories. They give to others and don’t just spend on themselves. As a result of managing their money wisely, they have the financial freedom to spend even more time with the people whose company they enjoy most.
J)       3 recommendations: i) Buy experiences – such as vacations and outings with friends or loved ones. Ii) Spend on others instead of solely on material possessions. iii) Establish default systems (automated payments and savings) that lessen daily worry about money.

Physical Wellbeing
A)     Many critical signalling genes that promote inflammation, autoimmune, and allergic responses were markedly reduced in just 5 weeks due to dietary changes.
B)      When we eat meals high in carbohydrates and sugars, it essentially damages our appetite-control cells and sends a message to our brain to consume more, even if we don’t need more food at that time.
C)      Look for vegetables and fruits that have darker tones of red, green and blue.
D)     People who exercise at least twice a week are happier and have significantly less stress.
E)      Exercising is much more effectively at eliminating fatigue than prescription drugs.
F)      Having a good night’s sleep gives us a fresh start, and increases out chances of having energy and high wellbeing throughout the day.
G)     Study showed that we learn and make connections more effectively when we are asleep than we do when we are awake.
H)     Sleep 7-8 hrs. Too short or too long can cause problems. Short sleeps were 35% more likely to experience a substantial weight gains and long duration sleepers were 25% more likely to have a substantial weight gain.
I)        Making the right choices in advance can help us get ahead of our short term desires. Choose the place you want to eat correctly.
J)       People with thriving Physical Wellbeing effectively manage their health. They exercise regularly and feel better throughout the day as a result. They make good dietary choices, which keeps their energy high throughout the day and sharpens their thinking. They get enough sleep to wake up feeling well-rested and to process what they learned the day before – and to get a good start on the next day. People with thriving Physical Wellbeing look better, feel better and will live longer.
K)      3 recommendations: i) Get at least 20 minutes of physical activity each day – ideally in the morning to improve your mood throughout the day .ii) Sleep enough to feel well-rested (generally 7-8 hrs) but not too long (more than 9 hrs). iii) Set positive defaults when you shop for groceries. Load up on natural food that are red, green and blue.

Community Wellbeing
A)     Besides basic sense of security, aesthetics of the community (parks, playgrounds etc), social offerings (places where friends meet, nightlife etc) and general openness to all types of people are factors.
B)      Unless you make an effort to get involved in social groups, it is unlikely your community wellbeing will grow.
C)      Thriving community wellbeing is about what we do to give back to our community.
D)     At the highest end of the community wellbeing continuum is giving back to society.. This may be what differentiates an exceptional life from a good one.
E)      When we do things for others, we see how we can make a difference, and this gives us confidence in our own ability to create change.
F)      Creating sustainable change may be 2-3 times as likely to happen in the context of a group, company or community organization. Eg, if you enrol in an intensive weight loss program alone, there is a 24% chance that you will maintain your weight loss after 10 months. If you enrol in the same program and then join a social support group of 3 strangers, there is a nearly 50% chance you will maintain the weight loss 10 months later. But if you enrol in the program with 3 friends or colleagues, you already know, the odds of maintaining your weight loss of up to 66%.
G)     Workers who were the most engaged in their jobs donated 2.6 times more than those who were not engaged in their careers.
H)     People with high Community Wellbeing feel safe and secure where they live. They take pride in their community, and they believe it is headed in the right direction. This often results in their wanting to give back and make a lasting contribution to society. People with thriving Community Wellbeing have identified areas where they can contribute to their community based on their own strengths and passions. They tell others about their interests to connect with the right groups and causes. Their contribution may start small, but over time, it leads to more involvement and has a profound impact on their community. The efforts of people with thriving Community Wellbeing are what create communities we cannot imagine living without.
I)        3 recommendations: i) Identify how you can contribute to your community based on your personal mission. ii) Tell people about your passions and interests so they can connect you with the relevant groups and causes. iii) Opt in to a community group or event. Even if you start small, start now.

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Book Warehouse Sales Review

Price of books in Singapore are relatively competitive as compared to most countries. Over the last 5 years, more book warehouse sales are held in either Expo or Suntec. Depending on the types of books you like and buy, some of the books are really cheap in some of these warehouse sales. I believe I have been to all the book warehouse sales organised by the big bookstores in Singapore and below are my observations.

Borders
I went to Borders sale today and I believe this might be Borders last book warehouse sales in Singapore. It is under liquidation and is selling whatever they have from its Wheellock store. The previous Borders sales were disappointing. Most books were either old, with all the browsing or outdated. To make it more uninteresting, the books were only slightly discounted. The crowd today was great. The discount was at 50% off which was great and the main draw. The main drawback of the event was that the books are too disorientated and too messy. The books are categiorized only to Kids, Fiction and Non Fiction and are all thrown into large boxes. 90% sold are books. In any case, this may well be the last time I go into a Borders store.

MPH
I started with MPH due to a recommendation from a friend about 4 years ago. Back then, I was amazed at the steep discount this warehouse sale has. I still remembered that I bought a Lords of the Ring Trilogy book for $8 at the warehouse and the same book was selling at about $40 in a MPH store. Back then, most nonfiction books are going at $7 and fiction books are at $5(if I did not remember wrongly). That is about 60-80% off shelf rates. Since then, I have search for my books in MPH sales. MPH started with an annual sale, but they have now half yearly sales, and sometimes for whatever reason, organising one every 2-3months. Besides books, they do have a small portion for stationaries. Though prices have increased in the walehouse sales, they are still about 50% off shelf rates.

Times
I think I have only gone to Times book warehouse sales a couple of times. The only thing i remembered was that the book selection was limited and the discount was dismayed. No interesting at all.

Popular
Popular has been organising bigger warehouse sales each year. They have a big difference among all the other bog players. they have a wide selection of chinese books and stationaries. They have a small section on english books though. So only go there if you want to buy some chinese books and stationaries.

There is an annual chinese books sales, or more of an exhibition, with talks included. I can't remember what is the name of the event, so sorry.

Overall, as I am most interested in self-help books, the MPH sales has been my main source to get my books over the last 4-5 years. Each time, i spent about $200 there.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

How Successful People Think By John C. Maxwell

This tiny book measuring 6.5" x 4.5"with 124 pages took me too long to complete. I started when i went for my cruise last Nov and I just completed....after 9 long months. Anyway, here is a detailed summary.

Big Picture Thinking
Why Big Picture
A) Allows you to lead
- See the vision before others do.
- Size up situations, taking into accounts many variables
- Sketch a picture of where the team is going
- Show how the future connects with the past to make journey more meaningful
- Seize the moment when the timing is right
B) Keeps you on target
C) Allows you to see what other people sees
D) Promotes teamwork
E) Keeps you from being caught up in the mundane
F) Helps you to chart uncharted territory

How to acquire wisdom of big picture thinking
A) Don’t strive for certainty
B) Learn from experience
C) Gain insight from variety of people
D) Give yourself permission to expand your world (out of your experience and what you know)

Focused Thinking
Why focused thinking
A) Harnesses energy towards a desired goal
B) Gives idea time to develop
C) Brings clarity to the target
D) Will take you to next level

Which area to focus
A) Identify your priorities
B) Discover your gifts
C) Develop your dreams

How to stay focused
A) Remove distractions
B) Make time for focused thinking
C) Keep items of focus before you
D) Set goals
E) Question your progress

What to give up to go up
A) Not knowing everyone
B) Not doing everything
C) Not going everywhere
D) Not being well-rounded

Creative Thinking
Characteristics of creative thinkers
A) Value ideas
B) Explore options
C) Embrace ambiguity
D) Celebrate the offbeat
E) Connect the unconnected (Think – Collect – Create – Correct – Connect)
F) Don’t fear failure

Why creative thinking
A) Adds value to everything
B) Compounds
C) Draws people to you and your ideas
D) Helps you learn more
E) Challenges the status quo

How to be creative
A) Remove creative killers (“I’m not a creative person”, “Follow the rules”, “Don’t ask questions”, It can’t be done”, It’s too much work”, “Failure is final”)
B) Asking the right questions (“What is the root problem?”, “Why is this impt?”, What is the opposite?”, “Why must this be done this way?”)
C) Develop a creative environment
- Encourages creativity
- Place high value on trust among team members and individuality
- Embrace those who are creative
- Focuses on innovation
- Willingness to let people go outside the lines
- Appreciates the power of a dream
D) Spend time with other creative people
E) Get out of the box

Realistic Thinking
Why
A) Minimize downside risk (because pls for worst case scenario)
B) Gives a target and game plan
C) Catalyst for change (people rely on hope rarely make changes)
D) Provides security (because you make contingency plans more confidently and secure)
E) Gives credibility (not surprised by the unexpected)
F) Provides foundation to build on

How
A) Appreciates the truth
B) Makes one do his/her homework
C) Think through the pros and cons
D) Picture worst case scenarios
E) Align with your resources

Strategic Thinking
How to release the power of strategic thinking
A) Break down the issue
B) Ask why before the how
C) Identify the real issues and objectives
D) Review your resources
E) Develop your plan
F) Put right people in right place with right plan
G) Keep repeating the process


Question Popular Thinking
Why?
A) Sometimes means not thinking
B) Offers false hope
C) Slow to embrace change
D) Brings only average results

How?
A) Think before you follow
B) Appreciate thinking differently from your own
C) Continually question your own thinking
D) Try new things in new ways
E) Get used to being uncomfortable

Benefits from Shared Thinking
Why?
A) Faster than solo thinking
B) More innovative than solo thinking
C) More matured than solo thinking
D) Stronger than solo thinking
E) Returns greater value than solo thinking
F) Only way to have great thinking

How?
A) Value ideas of others
B) Move from competition to cooperation
C) Have agenda when meetup
D) Get right people around the table
E) Compensate good thinkers and collaborators well

Practice Unselfish Thinking

Why?
A) Brings personal fulfillment
B) Adds value to others
C) Encourages other virtues
D) Increases quality of life
E) Makes you part of something greater than yourself
F) Creates a legacy

How?
A) Put others first
B) Expose yourself to situation where people have needs
C) Give quietly or anonymously
D) Invest in people intentionally
E) Continually check your motives

Rely on Bottom Line Thinking
Why?
A) Provides great clarity
B) Helps you assess every situation
C) Helps you make best decisions
D) Generate high morale
E) Ensures your future

How?
A) Identify the real bottom line
B) Make the bottom line the point
C) Create strategic plan to achieve the bottom line
D) Align team members with the bottom line
E) Stick with one system and monitor results continually

You can see that my writings for each chapter gets shorter and shorter. I apologise for that. John Maxwell seems to be my favourite self-help(leadership) author for the moment. I ahve listened to his audio book and

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Pirate Latitudes by Michael Crichton

I do not know if it is because of my reading taste changed or the author wrote this book halfway before he died, but i do not know if i will finish reading this book.

The story is set in the 1665, with marine rivals between the British and the Spanish. Mostly about lifes of pirates and officers(good and bad). Storyline was nothing like what Michael Crichton has in Jurassic Park, Congo nor his more recent works; Prey and Next.

I am halfway but i am putting the book down...at least for some time till i am less bored with it.

Monday, November 1, 2010

The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown

It has been ages since I last read a "storybook". The last was "Five Persons you meet in Heaven"by Mitch Albom and that was in May 2009. have read all the 4 previous Dan Brown books. Was putting this book for a while as I hope this was not a similar book as Da Vinci Code.

I am glad that this story was as intridging as the Da Vinci Code. The story was full of logical explanations (to me) with twists and turns along the way. That is the no. 1 plus point about Dan Brown because most fiction books do have quite a bit of illogical plots.

Now about the negative stuff in this book. Firstly, I do not understand why must there be a woman with the hero in all his books. Does Robert Langdon need a sidekick? Secondly, I do not like the way the story unfolds itself in the end. Lastly, I thought it was a bit illogical, though not completely, that the villian was a one-man show. It seemed like this villian was able to beat all the CIA, professors, police etc.

Anyway, this nearly 700 pages long book took me >2 weeks and with my workload, I felt it was quite an accomplishment for me to even finished the book. Overall, it was a very good read and the storyline was nearly as good as Da Vinci Code.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Wink and Grow Rich by Roger Hamilton

From the title, you would think that this book is riding on Napolean Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" classic, which is highly recommended by many international speakers and authors. I chose to read this book because it is not too thick and it seems not a difficult book to read. And best of all, there are drawings in some pages :)

The story is about a young man who went around to find wealth and met a number of wise and wealthy people who teached him how to find wealth. There are too many lessons to be learnt so I will just write out the takeaways from each of the people he learned the lessons from.

The Well (beginning)
- Think it, Ink it (write it down)

The Optometrist
- Clarity and focus on vision
- 4 levels of communications a) exchange, b) connect, c) motivate & d) inspire
- Choose the level you want to play at
- What you see is always what you get
- Ask and you shall receive

The Plumber
- Think it, ink it, do it, reveiw it
- Learning is a game
- Invest more of your time, spend less of it
- Invest more of your money, spend less of it

The Gardener
- Your well is in your words
- Wealth is the beginning, not the end
- Sow, nurture and reap
- Your position is your compass

The Fisherman
- To know and not to do, is not yet to know
- Value is the river in which wealth flows
- Becaome an inspired work-in-progress
- Plan to fail

The Rower
- See the wood from the trees
- Opportunities lie in every moment
- The key to leverage is how you use it
- Sustainable wealth follows a rhythm

The Musician
- Time is your most precious asset
- Harmony is the foundation of wealth
- Time has seasons
- It's not just what you do, it's when you do it
- When you resonate, you accumulate

The InnKeeper
- You settle for your standards
- A five star life is easier than a two star life
- Your environment is your playground
- You are the results of your choices

Here's one quote which I think its good
"You won't make dollars if you can't make sense."

I was pleasantly surprised at the depth of this book. Very refreshing and I had learnt a lot. My main learnings are the "4 levels of communications", "think it, ink it, do it, review it", "invest more of your time, spend less of it", "your well is in your words", "sow, nurture and reap", "become an inspired work-in-progress", "you settle for your standards" & "a 5 star life is easier than a 2 star life".

Fantastic book. I would recommend all to have a read if you are interested in not only having more wealth but to have a better life.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Guide to Becoming Rich Without Cutting Up Your Credit Cards by Robert T Kiyosaki

I have this book for quite a while and have not picked it up as I was a bit bored with Kiyosaki books as the main contents are always the same, ie the quadrant and the different money making methods (Business, real estate and paper investments). As I was getting busier with my work, I decided to have an easy read.

This book proved that it was about the same as his previous books. My take away from this book is expenses should not increase at the same rate as your income.

It teaches some methods on how to reduce your overrun credit bills, how to reduce your bad debt and teaches on what are good debts which are good leverages in building a long term income.

Anyway, if you have read his Guide to Investing, I believe it covers most of what you can read in this book.

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Practical Solutions for Everyday Work Problems by Elizabeth Chesla

When I saw this book, there were only 2 things in my mind. One is that even though it does not look brand new, it is still rather cheap and the other being I can get some tips in solving my work problems, which seems to be coming at me continuously throughout the whole day. After going through the book, here are my 20 takeaways.

1) State current situation, then the desired situation.

2) Identify the problem.
- problem must be a fact, not an opinion.
- problem must be manageable (something can be done to solve it)

3) Set goal
- Specific, measureable, ambitious & realistic

4) Break problem into parts
- questions and answers must be relevant
- keep records

5) Must have positive attitude and beliefs (must believe that you can before things are done)
- face reality, do not run away from the problem
- trust intuition
- be patient

6) Be in a good environment

7) Observe to see what others overlooked

8) Put yourself in other people's shoes

9) Practise creativity

10) The more creative you are, the more possibilities you can uncover. And the more possibilities you uncover, the more likely you are to find the best solution for that situation.

11) Just start to write something, anything to stop the writer's block.

12) Brainstorm. No censor, no criticism

13) Listing - list all possible answers, without thinking to come up with best answers.

14) Mapping - Enables you to see realtionship between different ideas.

15) Drawing connections - connecting between random words and the problem

16)No creative solution. Normally stuck in one way of thinking due to problem handled in certain way. Need paradigm shift.

17) Evaluation solutions.
- Ranking by criteria. Effectiveness, feasibility, time, cost. human resources, difficulty/ease of implementation, risk. Use table to rank.
- Pros and Cons

18) Errors in reasoning during evaluation.
- Appeals to emotions. Fear, vanity, flattery, scare tactics, peer pressure, pity
- Assuming a possible consequence will happen if you do something.
- Thinking you have only 2 options when you could have more options.
- Reasoning going in circles, ie no real reasons
- Assuming a situation which might not be true.

19) Action Plan
- Break solution down into tasks to be accomplished
- Determine order in which tasks must be completed
- Determine who will handle each task
- Determine how long for each task and how much it costs
- Set specific start and end dates for each task
- Develop contingency plans

20) Present the solution
- Consider your audience
- Clearly define the problem
- Summarise the problem
- Present the solution
- Anticipate objections.

I felt that the book is a good book for beginners in starting his/her working life. It give the basic steps to look at problems. It has been refreshing, though i had hope to learn new ways to tackle problems.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Fish! Sticks by Stephen C. Lundin, John Christensen and Harry Paul

This is sort of a continuation of the 1st book, Fish!. For those who have not read the 1st book, it would be better if you read it 1st before reading this book. This is in fact the 3rd installment from these authors of the Fish! philosophy. The 2nd book is Fish! Tales, which are real life stories about people who used the Fish! philosopy.

This book differs from the 1st book in that the 1st book teaches about the concept of the philosophy and this book introduces methods to make the change sticks.

There are 3 main ingredients in this book; Find it, Live it and Coach it.

In any job, one must be committed to something. There must be something that you believe dearly in order for you to function as productive worker. There must be something that makes you have passion in what you are doing, so that you are constantly thinking of new improvement ideas. It may be that you want to be supportive to your colleagues, it may be that you want to create a good working environment or it may be that you want to better yourself every year. Whatever it is, you have to "Find it".

After finding your committment, you have to "Live it". If your committment is to support your colleagues, you will find ways to live to your committment. You can observe if your colleagues need assistance in certain jobs, or you can help by simply suggesting a method to make your colleagues' job easier. Living true to your committment requires discipline and consistency.

Coaching others sometimes can be difficult, especially if the other party is a more senior or experienced person. In "Coach it", it does not matter who the other party is. What matters is if you have better ideas and experience in doing that exact task. We are all good at something, be it writing a report, repairing the TV, analysing data or even a leisure workout.

Practising all these 3 parts would help to make any change sticks in any organisation.

Monday, June 29, 2009

Fish! by Stephen C Lundin, Harry Paul and John Christensen

Of the 3 books in the Fish! series, I started reading the last and latest one, Fish! for Life. Reading just a quarter of that book, I felt a compelling urge to get my hands on the 1st installment before continuing with the book.

I am so glad that I got this book in super quick time and also finished reading it within 3-4 hrs. In fact, if you are a fast reader, I believe you should be able to finish the book in 2 hours. I was engrossed when the story unfolds on the work environment as it was very similar to mine. Plain boring to many of my staff. I was interested to know how Mary Jane, the main character, would be able to motivate her staff to have better output and give better customer service.

The 4 main ingredients are:

1) Choose your Attitude. We have a choice to choose our attitude everyday at work. We can choose to be grumpy and be zombie like or we can be as cheerful as a humble bee.

2) Play. Having fun at work with your colleagues would make your job more interesting and produce happier workers.

3) Make their Day. How do we engage our customers so that we can "make their day"?

4) Be Present. When corresponding with a customer, either external or internal, we are often distracted by our phones and interruptions. Being present with the customer shows your respect and your dedication to that person, which in turn will be reciprocated.

Though it looks difficult to implement in my office, I would try to do something. 1st, I believe I have to get a copy for my line manager. Stay tune for the reviews of the next 2 Fish! books.

Friday, May 22, 2009

Five Persons you Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom

This is the 3rd Mitch Albom book that I have read. I will try to write on the 1st books, For One More Day, when I get the chance. After reading Tuesdays with Morrie, I began to wonder the rational behind the popularity of the books from this author as his storyline is always surrounding death. Why are people so fascinated with death? For me, I think his popularity is due to his way of writing and the language he used which makes his books easy reads.

In this book, an amusement park maintenance head died while saving a small girl when an accident happened. He then met 5 persons which has some effect on his life. In this world, people who died will meet 5 persons who will each tell a story in which the dead person is to learn something out of them.

The 1st person was a man who performed in the amusement park when Eddie(the dead person) was a kid. This man tells Eddie how Eddie caused his death, though Eddie did not know it. He showed Eddie how an action from Eddie caused other actions, which in turn caused his death.

The 2nd person is his army captain. They were in a war and were taken as prisoners of war. After 6 months of captivity, they managed to escape but before they do, Eddie was hesitating and this is causing the whole crew to be killed. The captain then told Eddie that it was him who shot his leg, so as to save the whole crew. The captain also subsequently died saving his whole crew.. His lesson for Eddie was that there is always a cause for every action.

The 3rd person is his wife, who died of cancer at an age of 49. His wife was always supporting him, when when he was in the war, married him when he came back. She motivated and encouraged him.

The 4th person was Ruby, the founder of the amusement park. Though Eddie has never met Ruby, she described how her husband built the amusement park for her, how they lost the amusement park and how they died poor. She also showed Eddie on why Eddie's father died. Everyone thought Eddie's father died due to his drunkenness. The truth was his father was trying to save his friend who fell into the raging sea. He developed puenmia and died. Eddie then regretted not communicating with his father.

The last person is the girl. The girl is at the village when Eddie, as a soldier, thought he saw her. This girl died as Eddie did not save her. The girl then showed to Eddie that he did however save the girl in the amusement park at the expense of his own life.

The story ended with that. From this story, I wonder who will be my 5 persons when I die and what would they be telling me.